All the movies we watch and books we read make long distance seem like a temporary problem or a small speed bump in your relationship, but no one really tell us how hard it is actually going to be. Oka gynapakam tho bathikeyachu ani anukuntam kaani ah oka gyapakam eh manalni appudu ventaaduthu untadhi. It is not going to be a bed of roses but no one ever tells you it is going to be this hard. But end of the day it is all worth it. So here are few things people don’t tell us about long distance relationships:
1. The truth won’t hit you till he/she leaves
Aduthu paduthu gadipeyachu ani anukuntaam kaani vaalu actually vere ooru ki vellipoyevaraku ardham kaadhu this is it, manam call chesthe vaalu vachese antha reach lo manaki leru anesi.
2. There is no looking back
You have to be all in or nothing, cheyyala oddha ane doubt lo aithe undadam veelu kaadhu. This is it.
3. Waiting is the worst
Long distance lo unnaka vaalatho appudu matladuthaam, appudu kalusthaam anedhi always doubtful eh untadhi. The in between we are in is the most torturous place to be in.
4. Video/audio calls are a boon
Vaalatho matlade oka chinna call ki kuda thapisthaam. Ah voice ni vinadaaniki, ah kallu ni chudadaaniki manaki technology okkate dikku. Appudu appudu manalanti relationships kosam technology kanipettaru anipisthadhi.
5. Promises are more expensive than trips
Plans normal ga cancel aithe ne entha chirraku vasthadhi alantidhi enno months ninchi mana life lo unna special person ni kalavakunda undi finally kalusthaamu ani anukoni last moment cancel aithe ah badha asal inko ethu.
6. Random things will make you cry
Manam entha romantic person kakapoina, how much ever you hate cheesy things the simplest of the things that reminds you of your bf/gf will make you cry.
7. Not independence but independent
Vaalu manatho unnapudu oka chinna call chesthe elanti problem anna solve aipoyedhi kaani ippudu mana money issues maname sort chekuntu unte theliyakunda ne manam independent aipothaam.
8. Sometimes you cannot tell them the bad parts of your day
Communication entha important ani cheppina, mana problems anni vaalatho cheppamu. Vaalaki unna problems chaalaka manamu kuda cheppala ane feeling tho we pretend like everything is fine.
9. More of romance and creativity
Kalisina konni sarlu kuda special ga cheyyadham ani out of the world ideas tho vasthaam.
10. You will run out of things to talk
Mamul relationships lone oka 2days tharvatha ne inka-cheppu conversations vasthaayi, alantidhi long relationship lo anni thelusukunaaka maatalu aipothaay.
11. Other couples make you jealous
Vere couples ni chusthe how much ever we want to be happy for them ekkado mana days gurthuvachi manalni sad chesesthaayi. Naake endhuk avvali, it is so unfair ani anipisthadhi.
12. Goodbyes get harder
Everytime we meet is a happy occasion but dheeni tharvatha malli we have to part anedhi makes us sadder. This point you want to run away saying you don’t want all of these sad emotions but same time you want stay and make it work.
13. The end matters
Sometimes the journey is better than the destination antaaru kaani ikkada how the relationship ends is very important because it can make or break your belief in love and long distance relationships.
14. Is there life after this
Oka vela relationship end avthe inkosari love lo padthama ledha ani enni sarlu anukuntaamo.
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