We live a world, where almost all girls go through judgements like ‘Konchem ammaiyi laaga behave cheyyi', 'Ammaiyi annaka inti panulu, vanta panulu raakapote repu amma nanna ni antaru'… Ila cheppukuntu pothey aa list ki end ey undadhu.
Kaani ammaila mida societal sterotypes entha imply avthayo, abbaila mida kuda anne stereotypes inka judgements. To start from the basics: it is all, 'Don’t walk like a girl', 'Don’t talk like a girl', 'Don’t cry like a girl'. Ila chala meters loone abbailani judge chesi padestharu mana samajham. Lets see a few of them ikkada.
Skin care routine
Evaraina abbaiyi valla skin gurinchi care tiskovadam papam aipoindi andi baboi. Nuvvu emaina ammaiyva skin care routines cheyyadaniki antaru. Ye? Abbailaki skin leda, vatiki care avasaram leda? Also to be honest, ammailaki skin care chese abbailu antey chala ishtam. Antey…… skin gurinche antha care tiskuntey maa gurinchi inka entha care tiskuntaro ani oka chinna alochana!
Colours!
Asalu first, pink is for girls and blue is for boys ani evaru aithey create chesaro, vadini pattukoni, mokkala chippalu virakkottali. Asalu andarini kalipi evadu decide chesadu idi? Evarikaina pink ishtam untey chalu… jugde cheseyadam ey. Also, I think pink suits guys more than it suits girls!
Cooking
Pedda pedda hotels lo ekkada chusina most top chefs abbaile untaru. Antha enduku, TV lo master chef lo judges kuda mostly men ey. Alantidi mana intlo evaraina abbailu cooking cheyyadam istha padutey, pelli choopulu cinema lo prashanth valla nanna laaga, inka inti intiki elli antlu kuda thomu ani antaru.
Feminism
Are you a feminist? Bro… abbailu evaraina feminist untara… You got it all wrong bro. Feminism is about equality. If you are a man, and miru feminism ni believe chesthu, you stand for it, you should be proud of yourself.
Fashion and dressing
The other level of stereotyping men. Manchiga dress avvadaniki interest undadam papam aipoindi. Antey ippudu ikkada logic enti? Galeez battalu with no sense of taste untey, manism ana?
Non-macho things
Guitar vayinchadam, bike badulu scooter prefer cheyyadam, dance cheyyadam, ivvani edo pedda crimes laaga ne treat chestaru. Adi cheyyadam eppudu aitey manesthamo, appude baagu padtam.
Movie preferences
Abbailu annaka horror movies, action movies chudali. Rom-coms antarenti silly ga. Aa rom-coms tisedi kuda abbailu ey ga? Intha chinna logic ela miss aiyaru?
Not liking sports
Is it like mandatory? Abbailu annaka em mem nachalo em nachoddo oka list pampara. Next time nunchi chuskunta.
Feelings
Ey urko. Abbailu edustara endi. Ammaiyi va edvaniki. Be a man. Mard ko dard nai hota ani ekkada vinaleda endi? Learn to wear the pants in the relationship!
Hair and piercings
Areyy enti raa chuttu penchutunnav ammaiyi laaga, arey eyes pierce cheyyinchunav ah? Are you like turning into a gay or what?
Ila okata renda? List ki addu adupu undadhu. Let’s live and let people live peacefully mowa bross!
