General gaa eeroju "Single" anna word vinabadatame late..sentence poorthiga vinakundaane, "Ready to mingle" aah ani bayata society antundgi thappa, "Single" ante "No Siblings" ani artham cheskune rojulu eppudoo poyaayi. Single gaa .. adenandi, siblings lekundaa undatam aanandham gane untundhi, ala ani eppudu aanandham gaane untaam ani kuda cheppalem, endhukante mana baadhalu manavi. A Aa movie style lo cheppalante, "Inaa maa single kashtaalu, meelanti siblings unnavallaki em arthamavthay lendi!" Singles anubhavinche kashtaalu, aanandhaalu entoo chudhaamu..
1.Responsibilities: Manaki unna kashtaallo eppuduu gurthochedhi, intlo em pani cheppinaa, maname cheyyaali. We don't have other choice. Ante panulu cheyyachu anukondi, kani eppuduu maname cheyyali annamaata.
2.No Celebration of certain Festivals/Holidays: Konni holidays like Rakhi, Siblings Day(brothers day, sisters day) laantivi manaki em sambandham undadhu... aa roju kuda oka normal day ae manaki. aiaa manam kuda celebrate cheskune days untaayi lendi..like Independence day, Deepavali, Sankranthi etc etc
3.Relatives Sarcasm: "Ey raa okkadive kodukuvi gaa, inkem aasthi anthaa needhe", "okkaddanive kadha, intloo nuvvem chepthe adhe anta kadha", "paapam okkade gaaa......" laanti thokkalo meaningless comparisions, statements laantivi manam face cheyyaka thappadhu., Infact edoh oka roju podichi champeyali antha kopam vasthadhi aa statements vinte......kani manam cheppalem, vaallu maararu
4.No Sharing: Chinnappudu evadaina vacchi aa bomma naaku kaavali, idhi naaku kaavali ante godava padi mari siggulekunda laageskuntaam thappa, we don't like to share anything with anyone, except with our parents.
5.Rare Outings: Ikkada outings ante tours ani artham. Porapaatuna mana college vaallu edhaina North India tour plan chesaarante, manam parents ni oppinchadaaniki thala praanam thoka ki vasthundhi. We don't generally get permissions to go so many tours. Ainaa manaki thelusu, parents bhayam parents dhi ani. Asale 'single child', 'emanna aithe nuvvu okkadive maaku' ane dialogues manam thattukolemu.
6.No Sibling Lolli: Remote kosam or Cake kosam or Chocolates kosam or Dress kosam evvadini adukkovalsina pani undadhu, we have our own things in our house. Elaago siblings leru kaabatti, manam eyy channel pedthe aah channel ey untundhi annamaata TV lo. Idhi kuda oka rakamaina swag anukondi.
7.No Comparisions: Cheppalaante, manaki comparisions anevi ekkadaina untaayi, but migatha vaalla kanna thakkuva. Mana marks ni or job ni eyy akkakoo, thammudiko chupinchi compare cheyyadaalu em undavu. Ee vishayam lo manam safe annamaata.
8.Loneliness: "Untundhi untundhi....endhuku undadhu.??" Konni konni saarlu rare gaa, we feel too emotional that we don't have any siblings to enjoy our life and share our feelings. Kani alaa feel ayyina kodhi sepatike we feel normal because we are habituated to live as single child for so many years.
9.Savings: Idhi mathram appreciable thing. Manaki vacchina money manam vaadukune poorthi freedom untundhi. Isthe parents ki ivvadam thappa, we can use our own money and save a lot. Puttina rojuki thathayya icchina 500 dhaggara nunchi, job lo vacche salary dhaaka edhi evvadiki iche avasaram ledhu.
10.Must Meet Expectations: We need to meet the expectations of our parents. Unnadhi okkarame kabatti, they have all their hopes on us. Vaalla dreams or mana dreams ni satisfy cheyyalante we need to work a little bit hard.
11.Matured Enough: Siblings unnavaalla tho polisthe, we are more matured in thoughts. Siblings leru ani cousins tho thiragadam vallanoo, ledha manakanna pedha vaallatho time spend spend cheyyadam vallanoo, ledhaa mana parents thone anni share cheskovadam vallanoo, ledha anni panulu maname cheskovadam vallanoo, gradual gaa we develop as a mind matured personality.
12. Cousin Love: Manam single avvadam valla vaallatho manam friendship cheyyadam vallanoo ledha, vaallu manam single ani affection chupinchadam vallanoo kaani, we have a strong ionic bond with our cousins.
13.Hobbies are our Friends: Evaru unnaa lekapoyinaa, mana mood and emotions ni control chesevi maathram manaki unna hobbies ane cheppaali. Some of us have virtual siblings like Books, Musical Instruments, Browsing, Youtube etc etc.....
14.We are the Boss: Paina enni cheppinaa, we are the boss in most of the cases. No arguments, no requests, no adjustments. Maname thopulam. Entha mandhi enni vidhaalu gaa enni sarcastic statements mana meedhaki visirinaa, we are the center of attraction to many.
