Appati dhaaka illantha navvulatho, gola latho, kaburlu tho hadavidi ga untundi. Sudden ga annayo, akko studies or jobs kosam dhuram ga vellinappudu ah feeling vere asalu. Appatidhaka kottukunna sare, intlo vaalla presence lenappudu chaala miss avuthu untaam. Ala me brother or sister studies ki kakapoina jobs kosam ayina vere place ki velli untaaru kadha..so ah feeling ye ippudu cheppabothunna come on!
- Phone calls/Video calls:
Appati varaku only missed calls ye untai. Once vere place ki vellara inka start avthai nemmadhiga intlo jarige vishayalu share cheskodam nundi personal life etla nadusthundi varaku. Inka mana parents aythe “Chusi chala rojulu ayindi video call cheyara” ani antunte nijamga manasu lagesthundi. Ah time lo maname dhairyam ga undi valaki dhairyam chepadame.
- Sibling fights:
Remote kosam kottukodalu undavu, Extra Cake piece fridge lo nundi teesukune vaadu undadu, Daachukunna chocolates dobbese vaadu undadu. You know starting lo manam enjoy chestham hammaya anni nene tinochu ani. But days gadiche kodhi chi enjoy cheyyadaaniki evaru leru ani siblings ni baaga gurthu chesukuntaam.
- Money adjustments:
Entha dhuram ga unna..vaallu office ki velli kashatapaduthu, manam intlo bewares ga untu. Money matram adagagane bhale ichestaru.
- Intlo panulu:
Intiki yajamanuralu nene advertisement gurtosthundi mastaru. Appatidhaka ye pani cheppina “monna nenu vellaga esari nuvu vellu ani” manage chesevallam. Ippudu chachinattu anni panulu maname cheyali roi!
- Parents Effection:
Manaki ante ee smart prapancham alavatu ayindi. Phones, laptops unte chalu anukuni gadipesthunam. Peddha vaallu ala kaadhandi manushulu undali, Palakarinche vaallu undali, Matladevallu undali. Ee process lone manaki, vallaki bond ekkuva avthundi.
- Manam parents tho pette status lu, or chinna celebrations chusi papam akada ma annaya! Meanwhile long distance siblings be like: Kaanivandra bane untunaru ga nenu lekunda!!
- Cooking:
Inka kitchen mana sontham. Amma ni adhi kavali, idi kavali ani favourites anni chepinchukuni lagincheyochu. Competition ki evaru undaru. Bindaas!!
- Meanwhile my brother: “Amma nenu intiki vachestane.. ne vantale gurthosthunai”
- Responsibilities:
Mana siblings vere place lo undi sampadhinchina..intlo unna manaku slow ga badyatha lu start avthayi. Konnitiki adjust avuthu, parents ni jagratha ga chuskuntu, Time ki panulu cheskuntu ala ala..
- Why this special importance?
Bayata em functions ki vellina..annayya/akka bagunnaara amma ani adugutharu. Em memu kanipisthunam ga first mammalni adagochu ga memu manushulam kadha? I want to niladisfy andi!
- Selection process:
Appatidhaka idha/adha ani confusion lo unappudu manaki select chesi pette vaallu lekapothe entha kashatamo telusa saar! Dressing dagara nundi parents ki teeskune gifts varaku!
- Cheesy lines:
Ivanni chaladhu annatto okosari mana long distance sibling burst avuthu untaru. “Naaku ikkada undalani ledhu, mimalni miss avuthuna, meeru okasari ikkadiki ravochu kadha” rendu rojulu ah maatalu ala undipothai mind lo! Em chestham okosari em cheyalem. But dudes make them surprise with little moments.
- When you see other cousins:
Staying away from your brother/sister is not easy yaar! They completely become independent. Have to cook, wash clothes, cleaning by themselves. Ala eppudaina vere cousins vala siblings tho chusinappudu abba ma annayya/akka kuda undi unte bagundedhi ani okasaraina anipisthundi manaki.
- What if they don’t lift our calls:
Jaathara telusa andi meeku? Vaadu phone lift cheyyakapothe oka pakka vadiki, inko pakka intlo unde manaki. Ye vaalla friends numbers teskoleva? Location telidha? Dhuram ga unde appudu ilanti bhayalu very common.
- Rakhi/Birthdays:
House feels nothing without them. Especially ilaanti moments lo..birthdays, rakhi, Parents anniversary chaala lonely ga untundi house antha.
We grow up so quickly and you know what we all hate that. Kaani tappadhu ekkada unna, ela unna make conversations, gift anything, visit him/her. Appudu vaallu happy, manamu happy. So yeah you know whom to tag in the comment section right? Dedicating to all the long distance annayya’s and akka’s.
