Based on real life incidents Eppudaina manam parties, functions ki velthe manaki thelisinavallu, manam thelisinavallu chalamandhe untaru. Kani adhento ardham kaadhu konthamandini face chusi recognize chesina, valla peru enthaki gurthocchi saavadhu. Appativaruku MCA lo nani la unna manam sudden ga bhale bhale magadivoy lo nani la tayarautham. Valla peru gurthu tecchukovatani nanaa thantaalu padatham. So, ee article lo manam aa 'Avathali vyakthi' peruni ae techniques use chesi thelusukocvacchu..aa techniques pros and cons enti ..asalu aa process enti ani discuss cheyyatam jarigindhi. Avento chuseddhama mari.. P.S: Pellillaki, family functions ki vellinappudu andharini Aunty/Uncle ane pilustham; ledhaa.."Eppudo chinnapudu chusa kadhamarchipoya" ani anestham. So, veetini include cheyyaledhu.
1. The Enquiry Technique : Oka person manalni dooram nunchi chusi gurthupatti, athanu/aame mana daggariki vacchelopu ..mana pakkana unna friend gadini 'Rei manavaipe okadu vasthunnade, vaadi perentra?' ani enquire chesi, details thelusukuni, vallu vacchaka vallani peru petti pilichi ' Rei!! ninnu ela marchipotha mama...' ani edava buildup lu kodatham. P.S: Ee technique workout avvalante, mana pakkana sacchinattu oka mutual friend undali..vaadiki avathali vyakthi peru gurthundali.
2. The Varsalu Kalipese Technique : Avathali person manalni peru petti palakarinchinappudu, manalo oka guilty feeling start auddhi. Aa feeling ni overcome cheyyatam kosam 'Mama, bava, macha, bro, babai'...antu raka rakaala varasalu kalipesthuu conversation continue chestham. Kaneesam aa conversation lo aina edhanna clue dorukuthundhi emo ani. P.S: Ee technique maximum workout auddhi. Avvakapothe mana karma anukuni vere technique try cheyyalsindhe..
3. The Social Network Technique: Okavela conversation loki deep ga vellina..ae clue dorakaledhu anukondi..." Bava nee Instagram handle perenti?? Nuvvu snapchat unnava??" ani valla usernames thelusukovataniki try chestham. P.S: Ee handles lo kuda Dads3rdPrincess, I_Am_The_Rowdy, TheImperfectSoul lanti sollu usernames pettukuntu untaru chalamandhi. Alanti vallatho antha veasy kaadhu...
4. The Nostalgic Technique : School days lo 'Dungu, Buggal, Bokkal..' ani prathi okkariki nicknames pettestham kabatti ' Rei macha ninnu school lo edho pilichevaru ra??? emani? marchiopya?' ani slick ga question chestham. Vaadiki oka nostalgic feeling tho paatu, manakii vadi peru gurthukuvasthundhi. P.S: 1) Ee technique workout avvalante avathali vyakthi pakka mana school vade ane clarity manaki undali. Ledhante thusss. 2) Okvela aa avathali vyathi " Ippudendhuku mama avanni " ani hesitate ayyadaa..anthe. Workout avvadhu.
5. The 'Card' Technique: Manaki enthaki name thattakapothe, chuttu unna environment ni mundhunna manishini top to bottom scan chesestham. College rojullo aithe medalo unna ID card chusi " Rei, edhi mama nee ID card chupee..photo ela undho chustha" ani ID card theesukuni, silent ga name chusi..'Photo lo intha darunam ga unnaventra" ani navvesevallam. Ippudu perigam kabatti, chethilo udhyogalu unnayi kabatti..jebulo Business card/ Visiting cards kotthaga add authayi kabatti... " Hey bro, em chesthunnav ippudu ? " ane question tho modhalupetti last ki " Visiting card emaina undha?" ani end chestham. P.S: Maximum work out ayye technique annamata. Okevala ae cardu lekapothe, manam em cheyyalem.
6. The 'Introduce' Technique: Mana pakkana mana jigiri dosth gadu evadaina unnadu anukondi, vaadini avathali vyakthi ki introduce cheyyatam... Me: Bro, meet my friend the living legend ___ My Frnd: Hello i'm Ejaz, mari meeru? Avathali Vyakthi : Hello Ejaz, i'm Charan ____________________________ #Fasakkk________________________________ P.S: Mana friend gadu adhe time ki manatho aadukundham ani fix ayyadu anukondi, situation chala awkward ga tayaru authundhi annamata. So, mundhe mana friend gadini set chesi unchali.
7. The 'Obvious' Technique: Paina unna ae technique work out avvatledhu anukunte, conversation madhyalo melliga mee phone bayatiki theesi " Bro nee number naa daggara ledhu bro, emani save cheyyamantav?" (OR) " Bro nee number nuvve save cheyyava.." ani mana phone hand over chesestham. P.S: Ee point lo avathali vyakthi peru thelusukovatam kosam chaala desperate ga untam annamata. So, situation ni tension padakunda cool ga smooth ga handle cheyyali.
8. The 'Note Book' Technique : Ee technique school, college ki velle prathi okkaru max try chese untaru.. Avathali vyakthi chethilo book undhi anukondi, manam aa book theesukuni..slow ga front page lo name chusi, migilina pages anni flip chesi " Thega chadivesthunnav mama..ee year topper nuvve" ani tokkalo compliments tho covering icchukuntam. P.S: College lo chala mandhi, class ki time authundhi ani cheppi valla book kanapadakapothe pakkana vadi book pattukellipotharu. So, zara jaagaratthaga undali.
9. Honesty Is The Best Policy : Conversation authundaga... * It's too late to ask his/her name now* ani anukokunda...." Sorry bro, ninnu chusina ventane gurthupattesa kani, nee name strike avvatledhu. I'm pretty bad with names " ani honest ga cheppesaru anukondi ae godava undadhu annamata. P.S: Meeru marchipoyaru ani cheppina taruvatha, avathali vyakthi kuda " Hammayya, nenu kuda nee name adugudham anukunna macha, rude ga untundhemo..feel authavemo ani adagakunda..Macha macha ani cover chesthunna" ani annadu anukondi..anthakanna memorable experience inkoti undadhu.
Ive kaakunda inka meeku evaina kottha techniques thelisthe, do comment them below. Padimandhiki upayogapaduthundhi.
