Rejection is hard for everyone, adhi manalni definite gaa hurt chesthundhi. But cheppe vindhanamu okati untadi, correct ga chepakapothe obviously verevaalu hurt avtharu. We should be more sensitive to other’s emotions. Veere vaalu ela anukuntaro, vaala perspective aalochinchi ela react avvalo avvakudado konni tips:
1. Manamu matter kakunda yedava sollantha chepithe yevarikkana kalthadi. Direct ga you like me but sorry I don’t feel this way and indulo iddari tappu ledu ante most of the boys will appreciate it. And drama create cheyyakunda prashanthamga chepithe endhuk vinaru. Miscommunication undakudu, sootiga matladu sutti lekunda.
2. Vaalaki tappa oorandhariki thelisi, mana deggarininchi kakunda vere vaalu cheppi thelisthe hurt avvakunda em chestharu. Honest ga cheppesthe problem ae undadu, if he is the last person to know thanaki direct ga answer cheppe antha courtesy kuda ledu annatu untadi.
3. Fake excuses assala ke vaadakudadu, endhuk ante dorikipoye chances chaala high untayi. Adi also wrong because vaalu manalni nammi vaala feelings chepthe daaniki manamu abbadalu chepthe vaalaki insult laaga untadi. So meeku ippudu relationship oddu, career mida focus cheyyali ani genuine reasons cheppandi, it won’t work out ani yevariki ardham kaani reasons ivvakandi. Ne reasons inka relationship status cheppali.
4. If you can identify or meeku vaalu hints drop chesinapudu, if you don’t feel the same way it is your responsibility to tell them the truth. Edo attention ni enjoy chesthu, taapu signals isthu penta penta cheskokandi. Asalu no cheppe stage ke theeskoni raaniyakandi, starting lone cheppesthe vaalu feelings penchukoni hurt avvaru. Don’t give them false hopes.
5. Feelings annaka manushulake vasthay, most of the time avi mana control lo undavu. Vaalu mimalni as a person respect chesi vachi chepithe you should respect their feeling as well. It is not their fault.
6. Just because the other person likes you it does not mean he/she owes you something. Meeru danini oka priviledga feel iyyi vaalani titteyadam thappu.Don’t take offence, vaalaki feelings vachi decent ga mee deggariki vachi chepthe meeru notiki vachindi vaagesi vaalatho derogatary language use cheyyadam chaala unfair.
7. Inthakante immature move undadu, edo school lo vachi propose chesthe teacher ki complain chesinattu untadi. We are adults ippudu and we are free to express what we think.
8. Annati kante if there is worst way to say no ante definite ga message lo anna leda calls lo anna. Intha kante chirraku inka assayam teppinche type of rejection nenu iythe inka ekkada chudaledu. Vaalani kalisi idi matter ani cheppithe vaalani inka vaala feelings respect chesinattu untadi.
