Why You Need To Spend More Time With Your Parents!

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Why You Need To Spend More Time With Your Parents!
(article contributed by Dr. Gouthami Gummadi) Ee jagath ni srushtinchedhi,nadipinchedhi devudu ani mana lo kontha mandi gattiga nammutharu. Alage vyathirekistharu kuda, emaina ante science, nakshtraalu, planets ani vivarana icche sthaai ki kontha mandi cherithe, kontha mandi niroopinchina vaaru kuda unnaru. Ekanga velli vacharu ante nammuthara? Nammali mari..science kada, prathi anuvu ki kanuvu ki reasoning untadhi ga. Kaani aa ghanatha pondina endharo mahaanubhavulu aa sthaai ki ela cheraaru? Vaalla pattudhala? dheeksha? Talent? Lekapothe kontha mandi “LUCK” ani ooo ginjukuntaare... adhaa? Entha vaalla talent unna..oka KANIPINCHINA Sakthi vallani nadipinchindi ante nammuthara? Aunu..meeru chadivindhi correct ee..kanipinchani sakthi devudu aithe, kanipinche sakthi mana AMMA NANNA! Inthaki antha famous scientists, mana role models chaalane untaaru..kondariki APJ ABDUL KALAAM aite..mari inkoraki SACHIN TENDULKAR..inka kondariki PK kuda devudu! Kaani..manam bhoomi meeda kevvuuu ani edche kanna mundhe, manalni vaalla kanna amithanga preminche iddari gurinchi roju ki okkasaaraina alochistaama? Frank ga cheppandi..aha aha..naaakoddu mee manassakshi ki meere cheppukondi roju ki oka muppayi sarlu whatsapp chuskuntamu..dp edi pettalaa ani edits cheskuntu untam..fb lo evaru em chestunnaro valla jeevithalloki..thongi marii chusthuntam..kaani mana lo entha mandhi amma kitchen lo unte emaina amma ki avasram emo ani thongi chustam? Nanna ki em kaavalo.. ani aaraa teestham? intlo roju amma nanna vaallatho untunappudu manam valla kosam em chesthunnam? Udhyogalu chese vallu..dabbu okkate isthe saripodu andi..ala ani prema ivvandi ani bhaashanaalu cheppanu… pakka vaadu chepthe vine sthai lo evvaru undaru..pakkanodu pakkana pettandi..amma nanna cheppina maata vinte chaalu. Meeru mee thalli thandrulki ivvalsindi alla okkate..sahanam..samayam….oka roju nenu work nunchi vachaka..chaala chiraaku ga kurchuna.amma naatho matladuthuna..sarigga pattinchukola.. kaasepayyaka visukkuna… okka maata ante ottu..vellipoindi..(kitchen loki velli vanta samaagri tho orchestra vinipinchindi lendi adi vere vishayam ). Kaani chinnapuud entha visinginchi unta amma ni nenu? Okka sari kuda visukkoni undadu..mari nenenduku ila? Ma amma kanna pedda thopu na? ani anipinchindi… Chinnapudu ante oka 3 years eskondi… entha torture petti untaam? Adiginde malli adigi..tippi tippi malli daanne adi enti amma? Idi enti nanna? Idi ela enduku? Appuudu okkasari kuda manlani visukkokunda cheppevallu kada… kani manam ee matram pedda vallu aipoyesariki enduku intha ashanam chupisthunnam? Emaina ante.. ‘meekem telidu le amma..idi ippudu trend’ ani build up istaam… ade build up manaki mana amma nanna chinnapudu manaki ichi unte..manam ikkada undevallama? Okka sari alochinchandi! Devudu unnaado ledo telidhu gaani… amma nanna unnaru. Ala ani poojinchamani cheppatla… vallaki ivvalsina viluva ivvamani koruthuna… pelli kaaka mundu evarnaina nee jeevitam enti ante ‘JOB..CAREER…LOVE.. PASSION’ ani antaru…pellayaka adigthe ‘FAMILY… SAMPAADANA… MONEY..’ ani antaru…Kani oka thalli ni..thandri ni adagandi..mee jeevitham enti ani adigthe matram..’MAA PILLALU ANDI’ chakkaga chepthaaru..mari manam eppudanna annama? Amma nanna mana jeevitham ani? Cheppadam kaadu… mana oohallo aina anukunnama? Correcte..peddha vayasu ayyaka chaadastham osthadi…kaadanatalledu…kaani..nuvvu mee amma pothillo unnappudu tholi rojullo physical ga..chaala ne kashtaalu padi untadhi… ala ani ninnu kanakunda undunte? Lekapothe..baboi..na valla kadu..addhe ki garbham dorikidda ani alochinchinda? Nuvvu puttina tarvatha..nee sleep timings ki elaago amma adjust ayyedi…paapam thellavaaru intlo panultho netho aame ki time telisedi kadu… kaani rojantha pani chesi alasi solasi poina mee nanna kaasepu kunuku teeddam ani ala vaalipoina maru kshaname nuvvu nee raagam etthe vaadivi kada? Ayina “naa bujji kanna enduke” ani aadinche aa thandri ni..meerippudu ade work nunchi vachaka oka maata matladithe visukkuntaare? Aa rojullo mana parents ki thondarga pelli ayipoyedi(compared to our ages now) ippudu aithe manam complete ga settle ayyake cheskuntunnam kaani..aa rojullo they never had much experience. Still samsaara saagaram loki dooki, eedhuthu…aha aha..eduru eedhuthu manalni ee sthaai ki techcharu kada..mari manam emisthunnam vallaki? Chirraaku? Visugu? Kopam? Asahanam? Ivi aite parledu andi… ekanga old age homes ani oka pedda bunglow isthunnam kada… entha great andi manam? Aina kuda aa thalli pegu, thandri prema veellu maa pillale ani anukuntaru gaani..mana laga alochincharu. Cheppedalla okkate andi…. Thalli thandrulni gurthinchandi… gouravinchandi… poyedi emi ledu… kaastha samayam..kaastha sahanam..oka chirunavvu tho prema nindina maatalu… chaalu ivi..mali vayasu lo vallu koredi idhe tappa.. aasthulu..bangaram.. dabbulu..hodhaa kaadu.. hodha adigina.. mee manasu lo intha chotu..mee pillatho aadukune oka hodha adugthaare tappa..inkem untayandi aa picchi manasulaki… mee meeda, mee pillalameeda amithamaina pichi prema thappa??