9 Common Reactions That We Can Totally Relate To When We Hurt Our Ego!
Manishi ego anedhi chaala delicate ga untadhi, appudu ekkada dhebba thintadho aa manishike theliyadhu. Life lo konni situations vasthaayi where you are supposed to feel happy for others but dhaaniki mana ego addupadthadi. Idhi edo vaalu manaki ishtam ledho ledha vaalu chedhu korukunnattu kaadhu kaani but we cannot genuinely feel happy for their success, so some of these situations are:
1.When you and your friend apply for a job but only he/she gets a job:
Manam cheyyanidhi vaalu em chesaaru, vaalaki manakante ekkuva talent undha? Nenu thakkuva na? Ani manalni manam question chese stage ki vachesthaamu.
2. When a girl you and your friend like chooses your friend:
Iddharu friends okkate ammayi ki same interest inka dedication tho padeyadaaniki try chesthaamu. Kaani ah ammayi manalni reject chesi friend ki okay chepthadhi, endhuku ante ninnu friend kante ekkuva ga nenu appudu feel avvaledhu ani inka hurt chesthaaru.
3. When someone appreciates your friend’s clothes instead of yours:
Manam baaga thayaar iyyi, mana friend emi effort pettakunda velthe vaalu mee friend ne compliment chesthe mee ego hurt iyyindihi ani chupinchaleru ala ani vaala kosam happy ga undaleru.
4. When your parents/relatives appreciate your sibling and not you:
Our siblings tho manaki competitive feeling lekapoina chuttu unna janaalu manaki eppudu vaalatho compare chesthu thepisthaaru. Akka/anna ni chusi nerchuko ante manaki konchem insult annattu untadhi but chelli/thammudu ninchi nerchuko ani ante asal mothamu paruvu poyinatte.
5. When your close friend invites other friends but leaves you out:
Oka friend manake close ani manam anukunnapudu vaalaki kuda adhe feeling untadhi ani expect chesthaamu. Eelanti expectations appudu appudu wrong iythaayi and they end up ignoring us without a second thought and invite others to parties or get togethers.
6. When your colleague gets promotion instead of you
When give our everything to get the promotion and we don’t get it manaki badha ga untadhi kaani adhe promotion mana friend ki vasthe inka baadha ga untadhi.
7. When your ex gets a better gf/bf:
Maname ekkuva anukuna mohaaniki manamu break up cheppesaka manakante better face dorikithe manaki ekkado kaalthadhi. But because you have to be a mature person, you should pretend like you are happy for them.
8. When your friend passes an exam and you fail:
Iddharu kalisi night out chesi, same matter chadhivina vaadu okkade pass ithe ee yedhava ki manakante ekkuva thelivi undha ani manake manameedhe doubt vasthadhi.
9. When your gf/bf earns more than you:
Not all dreams and professions pay the same. Job lo unna different stages lo kuda different pay vasthuntadhi, so appudu appudu mana partner ki manakante ekkuva salary vasthuntadhi. They have to support us financially, manamu cheppalekapoina we obviously feel uncomfortable.
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