Thoughts Of A Girl Before Marrying A Man Who’s Completely Different Than Her

 

Contributed by Siya aroha

 

Siya: Nanna!! nenu pelli cheskonu please. Ikade
unta please, pelli chasthe cheskonu, naki istam ledhu.

Nanna: Chaaley ammai, ipatike chaala chesav kani mundhu ready avvu, abbai tharupu vallu vacche time ayindhi.

Siya: Nenu avanu, ilaane unta emaina cheskondi. Inka time minchipoledhu, abbai vallaki phone chesi ma ammayiki pichi ani chepeyandi valle cancel chesestharu.

Amma: Shubhama ani enagagement jaragabothunte em matale adhi, velli ready avvu mundhu.

Siya: Ammaaaaa!!!!

 

Anthe kadhandi, ye ammayi ki ayina pelli ante endhuku istam untundhi? love marriage ante kondariki istam untundhi anukondi, kani manam typical sampradayam ayna kutumbakam loni ammayi kadha, love marriage ani think chese option kooda mana parents ivaru. Pelli topic vasthene parents tho godava padtham, edustham. Mana life lo oka important step theeskuntunam, life partner tho jeevitham panchukobothunam ane santoshamkanna mana family, illu, friends veelandhariki dooram ayipotham ane baadhe ekuva untundhi. Vache abbayi nanna la chooskuntada, amma la premisthada, chelli la thoduga untada, thamudila aatpatistada? Atha-mama manatho baaguntara? 24years ye baadha lekunda, swechaga pergina manaku ila sudden ga anitni vadhili evaro teliyani valla intiki ela vellipotham? Asalu aa alochane bayam vesthundhi.

 

Kaani manam entha drama chesina em prayojanam undadhu, we can’t escape from marriage.Amma-nanna elogo emotional blackmail chesi convince chesestharu. Ilaage oka roju nannu kooda oppinchi abbayini kalavadaniki temple ki teeskelaru. Idhe na first pelli choopulu, chaala tension and nervous padthu undaga hero gari entry ayindhi. Chala chiraku face tho unnaru may be thanaki kooda bayam anukunna. Idhari family’s introduction ayaka, ma idharini maataladaniki vadhilaru. Idhariki em matladalo telidhu but thane elago conversation start chesaru. Face lo smile unna, maatalo bayam kanipinchindhi. Family, friends, hobbies, goals, expectations gurinchi maatladkunam,almost 55mins avthundaga dad call chesi rammanaru apude realize ayindhi we spoke for almost an hour ani.

 

Next day valla family members ma intiki vachi pelli fix chesesaru, chaala bayam vesesindhi infact edchesa, asalu abbayi gurinchi em teliyaka ila ela pelli fix chesetharandi? maaku minimum time ivandi telusukodaaniki ante pelli tharvatha etha time kaavalanna theeskondi annaru. Thanu kooda naaku call or atleast text cheyaledhu, ika wait chesi laabam ledhu ani nene first text chesa, ee 3 months lo just 6 times maatladam andhulo 4 times nene start chesa. Text chesthe baaga ne reply istharu kaani, inka telusukovali,koncham close avalani edhaina initiative teeskone sahasame cheyaru. Ayina mana generation ela undhi ipudu, oka ammayi ni road meedha choosina next second ye thana gurinchi telusukuni, social media lo stalk chesi, messenger lo messages nimpi, flirt chese yugam idhi. Kaani ee abbayi cheskoboye ammaiyi ki atleast oka text kooda cheyatledhu. Mari intha shy type ayithe ela? Engagement kooda avakunda texts, calls endhuku le anukuni cheyatedhu ante even I am okay with it because nakooda ani fast fast ga ayipodam istam ledhu kaani vere emaina reason tho em step teeskovadam ledha ane doubt prathi roju vasthundhi.
Evartho ayina friendship cheyadaanike entha alochinchi, vala gurinchi telusukuni, nachina tharavathe next step teeskuntam alantidhi pelli ante inkentha alochinchali. Abbayi chaala silent ,social media’s lo inactive,dance kooda raadhanta,shopping ante interest ledhu, fun loving kooda kaadhu anipisthundhi, naaku dead opposite thanu. Nenaithe hyper active, oka chota kuduruga undanu, arusthanu, aluguthanu, chaala drama chesthanu. Chaala choosy and confused soul, nannu denikaina opinchadam chaala kastam alantindhi ee sambandham antha easy ga ela opeskunna. Vachina matches anni edho oka reason cheppi cancel chesesa kaani ee match ki endhuku nenu em chepaledhu, why dint I stop this in any manner? May be raasi unte antha ala ayipothundhanni antaru kadha adhi idhenemo.

 

Nenu emaina ekkuva think chesthunnana? Ila na oka daanike avatledhu kadha, prathi ammayi ki ila ne jaruguthundhi. Ma nanna thanu unnapude antha caring ga chooskuntadu alantidhi thanu undani intiki pampisthunarante inkentha alonchinchi pelli fix chesuntaru. Chaala sambandhalu vachina idi okati maatrame nenu opukune varku convince chesarante thana family background and thana character manchidemo. Ayina manaki em baaguntundho edhi best oo manakanna mana parents ke baaga telusthundhi. Ee madhyane kalisna ma relatives kondharu abbayi chaala manchivadu , ninnu chaala baaga chooskuntadu annaru.

 

Prema, understanding, adjustments, respect unte chaalu ye relationship ayina baagane untundhi, daaniki biggest example mana parents ye. Ayina dance cheyadani, text cheyatledhu ani evaraina bangaram lanti abbayini odhu anukuntara chepandi. Thanu anthem bad kadhu, first impression baggage unindhi. Nenu observe chesina varku he is very decent, family ki first preference istharu, thana parents decision ki value istharu, sister ni baaga chooskuntaru, responsibilities teeskune manishi. Simple and sober living, show off cheyaru. Na gurinchi chala telusukunaru, na likes,hobbies, friends and na lifestyle gurinchi em complaints and restrictions petaledhu, infact he respects my ideas. Naku complete freedom istaru and support chestharu ani promise chesaru. Adjustable nature, patience kooda kaastha ekuve, of course nannu barinchalante aa matram undali lendi. Nenu korukunna major qualities ani thanaki undhi. Character and behavior lo AGMARK kuradu and a teetotaller. Family members kooda natho chala friendly ga untaru. Ika naatho closeness antara may be engagement ayaka kastha chanuvu vachaka baaga ne untaremo, entha kaalam Ila shy shy ga ne untaru, enthaina pelli ayaka elaago ala nenu naaku nachinatuga marchestha kadha

 

Ee roju ma engagement, antha baagane jaragalani devudini pray chesthuna.Ma idhari opinions and thinking different but enthaina opposites attracts antaru kadha. Future baaguntundo ledho ani bayapadi present ye step teeskoka pothe manam epudu starting point lo untam. Let’s see what is waiting for me, I am ready for this adventure.
Inthaki maa ayina peru chepaledhu kadha. He is Mr.Ram, we will soon be the hashtag #SiyaRam

 

Amma: Inka ready ava ledha? Em chesthunavu kurchuni? Ayina ninnu pelli cheskuntunadande dandam petali Ram ki. Enni janmalu punyam chesado neelanti rakshasini pelli cheskodaniki.

Siya: Ninnu barinchatledha ma nanna? Alane baristhadu le maa ayina, papaam.

 

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