A Real Life Inspirational Story Of How A Girl Quit Her Job For Her Father’s Health

 

Contributed by Jeedi Rajeswari

Naa peru Rajeswari. Naa life lo ni 23 years nerchukunnadi oka ethu, tarvata 2 years lo nerchukunnadi oka ethu . Antha varaki chaduvu matrame, ipudu jeevitham manushulu marenno vishayalu nerchukunna.

Maadi Kurnool district lo oka village. RGUKT- RK Valley lo B.Tech chesa. Final year lo campus placements lo naku software job vachindi. Ma nanna entha happy ga feel ayyado cheppalenu endukante maa oorlo oka ammayi job cheyadamante adi nene first avadam, andulonu aadapillaki chaduvu endukani alochinche vaalla madhyalo maa teachers force valla school lo join chesaru ma nanna. 10th mandal topper avdamtho paper lo photo vesaru. Maa nanna aa photo ni thana jebulo eppudu pettukuni tirigevaaru. Naa vishayamlo epudu happy ga undevaru. Aina andaru school ok, malli college kudaa naa anevaru. Annitini daati chaduv complete chesi job techukovadam tho andari mundu maa nanna garvanga nilabaddadu. 16 years education life lo 11 years hostel lo ne undi chaduvukunnanu nenu. Tarvata job valla Hyderabad, Chennai la lo unna. Epudu family ki dooram ga ne undalsi vachindi. Kaani manaseppudu intlone undedi. Ma nanna ela unnaru, em chestunnaru, health ela undi ani epudu alochanale.

Antha happy ga unna time lo maa nanna ki health paadaindi. Aina phone lo bavunna, naakenti ani saradaga matladevaru. sudden ga body paralyze aindi annaru. Maata sariga ravatledu. hospital lo oka maata kuda matladaleni paristiti. Maa amma, akka vaallatho em matladaleka poyaranta. Kani nenu call cheste nenu bavunna, nuvvem digulupadaku ani tadabadutune cheppadu. Alaanti situation lo kuda nannu mosam chesadu. Andaru nanna matladdam chusi ascharya poyaranta akkada. Tarvata surgery cheyalannaru. Nenu office nundi direct ga Kurnool vella. Nanna ki chinnapudu debba valla brain lo blood clot aindi. Neurosurgery chesaru. Ayina matladalekunnaru. Manchamlone unnaru. One month hospital lo ne unnam. Adi mental ga nenu entho struggle ayina time.

Aa time lo nenu ma nanna tho ne undalanukunna. Job resign chesa. Naa ee decision nijamaina manushulani, nijamaina kastalani, samasyalni naku parichayam chesindi. Andaru fool anukunnaru. Chala oppose chesaru. Em cheyanu, naku ma nanna tho ne undalanipinchindi. Repati situation edaina nenu face cheyadaniki ready ayyanu. Ma amma nanna la ku 5 mandi pillalam. Anna, iddaru akka vaallu, Nenu, Ma chelli. Present Maa intlo anna, vadina, pillalu unnam. Appativaraku unna naa andamaina family chinna china ga andam kolpoindi. Kadalleni nanna kosam job vadilesanani andaru evevo anevaru, kondaru direct ga inkondaru indirect ga. Okappudu baga pogidina valle nannu chulakanaga chusaru. Satires vesaru.

Intidagare undi SSC and bank exams ki prepare ayyanu. Intidaggara undi chadavalante entho dhairyam kavali. Adi kuda village lo ayite inkentho undali. Enno maatalu padutune mounanga undali. Marenno prashnalaki, manaki kuda teliyani prashnalaki samaadhaanam cheppali. okasari kaadu, prathi roju. Ivanni maa nanna mundu naaku samasyalu ga anipinchaledu. Nenu maa nannatho unnanu. Ma nanna chinnappudu nannela chusukunnado alaa nenu chusukuntunna. Anduke evaina nenu bharinchedaanni. Kaani nannu baadhinchedi maa amma kanneellu matrame. Nannante intha istamaina maa ammaki ee paristiti undi nanna bagunte, nanna ammani ilaa chusukunevaadu kaadani cheppagalanu. Entho mandi wife meeda jokes vestunte chusi navvukuntam. alaantivaallaki maa amma ni chupinchali. Maa nanna ki appativaraku bharya ga unna thanu amma ga maaripoindi. Nanna mammalni gurtupattaledu anukunevaallam kani maa amma ekkado matladite tirigi chusevaadu maa nanna, chinna pilladila. Vaalla relation alaa undedi. Prema Pelli laanti vaati pai nammakam kaligenche janta.

Nenu resign chesina within months lo exams raasa. 0.25 lo poyaay exams. Inka baaga prepare ayyi, kashtapadite ascharyamga chaala gap tho disqualify ayya nenu. Naa chuttu pressure ekkuvaindi. Maa amma naa gurinchi baadhapadedi. Andaru thanani naa marriage gurinche adigevaaranta. Enduku alaane unchaaru. Ee jobs avi avasarama aadapilla ki ani. Chala baadhapadedi thanu. But Marriage was nowhere a solution for me. Nenu job techukunnake pelli chesukunta ani gattigane cheppesa. Entho baaga chaduvtanani telisina andariki confidence poindi naa paina. Chaduvkunna vallandariki jobs vastaya, ee chaduvulu avasarama ani naa munde anevaallu. Naakentha baadhesina nenu amma mundu edchedaanni kaadu. Nandyal lo maa friends coaching teesukunevaaru. Vaalla daggarikelli naa baadha theerevaraki edchedaanni. Nene confidence kolpoina, naa pai nammakam tho nannepudu encourage chesevaallu maa akka vaallu, naa friends. Naku financial gaanu help chesaru loan clear cheyadaniki. Adi ma anna kosam job chestunnapudu nenu theesukunna. Adi inkoka problem. Entho pressure undedi. Ee depression valla nenu naa friends andarni dooramga pettanu. evaritho maatladakapoina pade pade nenela unnano ani calls messages chesevaallu naa friends. Naa depression ni artham chesukunevaallu. I said both thanks and sorry to them for everything what they did to me and what I did to them.

Tarvata nenu SSC qualify ayyanu. All tiers cleared. kaani Supreme court stay valla results ivvaledu. Banks ye serious ga raasa. Ee year April lo results icharu. Bank PO and clerk rendu jobs vachaay. That moment I cried for all the struggles I went through. My life came back to me. One month tarvata SSC results kuda vachaay. Tax assistant ga select ayyanu. 2.5years nenu entha baadhapaddano anni okesari badha theerchadu aa devudu. Present nenu clerk ga join ayya. Inka PO ki, SSC job joining ki time padtundi. Ma family tho untune job chestunna. Malli naa chuttu manushula theeru maarindi. Malli positive ga spandinchadam modalettesaru. 3 jobs okesari vachaya, aaha oho antunnaru. Maa Raji antunnaru. Kaani inthamundula nenu lenu. Ipudu artham chesukuntunna ee lokam theeru.

Nenem IAS, IPS laanti pedda pedda jobs techukokunna, it’s an achievement for me. Nenu ee period lo entho nerchukunna. Naalo edo moolanunna aa 1% garvam kuda poindi. I learnt to say no. Marenno manchi alaavatlu alavarchukunna. Maa nannatho kalisi nenenno puraanalu chadivedaanni. Apudartham kaani enno vishayalu nenu malli chadavadam start chesaka artham ayyay. MahaBharatham, BhagavdGita nannentho prasantham ga alochinchela chesaay. Naa life lo ni ye situation ki ayina anvayinchukunela chesaay. Ippudu nenu manushula navvu venuka artham chudagalugutunna. Kshaminchadam nerchukunna, kaani anni marchipodam kastam. I faced a lot of rejections, humiliations. Ivanni chusaka ika ye problem ayina nenu solve chesukogalanu ane confidence vachindi. More matured now.

Idantha enduku share chesukovalanipinchindante, manalo andariki kuda Amma Nannalante prema unundi. Ekkadiki potharule ani pattinchukom. Manakentho matladalani anipinchinapudu vaallu manatho matlade position lo undaru, kondaru manathone undaru. Anduke have moments with your family especially parents. Vaallu manakosam entho sacrifice chesuntaru. Manam sacrifice cheyalani vaaru korukoru kaani vaallani chusukune baadhyatha manade. Peddalu evaraina gouravinchandi adi mee Amma Nannalu kaavachu. Mee Aathamaamalu kaavachu. Athamamalu kuda okariki Amma Nannale kadaa. Katuvuga maatladakandi. Peddalevaraina Thallidandrulatho samaaname. Abbayi ayinaa, Alaage ammai aina pelli chesukovadam tho mana parents manam veru kaadu. Valleppatiki mana parents ye.

Inthavarakee article chadivaarante mee life lo kuda enno kastalu undindochu, mee amma nanna la pai meekentho prema undochu. Edo oka point ki connect ayyundochu. Baaga badhesi entaa ee life anipinchinapudu S/O sathyamurthy lo chal chalo chalo song malli malli vinandi. Entho positive feeling vasthadi. Manaki oka time vastundi. Mee life lo nu prathisari prothsahinche mee snehithulani eppatiki vadulukokandi.

 

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