Nanna Kuchi: Perspectives Of Father And Daughter At Different Stages Of Life

Contributed By Divya Vattikuti

A father is always a superman for his daughter. Ammayilu always remain nanna koochi. Aa prema maatallo cheppalenidhi. Alaane father daughter madhyalo unde misunderstandings kuda  alaane untaayi. Life lo different stages lo Ammayi goals and preferences maarina, nanna ku maaatram eppudu okkate preference– ‘Tana bangaru thalli eppudu happy ga undaali’. This is how it took me a life time to understand the perspective of my father.

When at 5

Daugther:

Appude ooha telustunna rojulu. Amma  eppudu kopaduthu undedhi. Nanna maatram nenem thappu chesina em anevaadu kaadhu. Inka amma ni kuda nannu tidihte oorukone vaadu kaadhu. Amma oka villain, Nanna oka hero la kanipinchevaadu.

Nanna:

Naa bangaru thalli appude chaala pedda ayyindhi. Roju tanani school lo drop chesi, tanu kiss peduthu cheppe ‘Bye nanna’ ane  maatalu entha mudduga untunnayo.  School nunchi vacchaka adhi chese allari kuda antha intha kaadhu. Kaani Iam enjoying every part of her growing up.

When at 11

Daugther:

Nanna  appudappudu thappa peddaga intlo kanipinchatledhu. Asalu nenu e class lo unano kuda nannaki gurtu ledhu. Chinnapati laaga adiginappudalla ice cream tinadaaniki teesukuvellatledhu.

Nanna:

Ammayi ki onilu icche vayasu vacchesindhi.  Chuttala daggara maata raakunda baaga cheyyali function. Peddayyaka ammayi em chadavalanukunna,  chadivinchadaaniki dabbulu undaali. Andhukosam ippati nunche over time cheyyali. Pani valla intlo ekkuva sepu time spend cheyyadaaniki kudaratle.  Nenu intiki vellesariki papa nidrapoyi untundhi. Tana childhood antha miss avtunna feeling kalugutundhi.  Tanu edhagdaam kalla mundhu kaakunda, mancham meeda padukoni unnappudu chudaalsi vastundhi.

When at 17

Daughter:

Nanna annitiki kopadutunnaru. Friends tho nightout ki kuda oppukovatledu. Naa friends andaru elaanti vaallani investigate chestunnaru. Nannu  phone kuda ekkuva sepu vaadukonivattle. Nanna is becoming  more protective day by day.

Nanna:

Roju newspaper lo vacche atyachaaralu gurinchi vintunte chaala bayam vestudhi. Na bangaru thalli ni ilaanti raakshasula nunchi kaapadukone baadhyata naadhi.  Raatri tution nunchi inka nunchi nene teesukostaanu ammayini.  Aa pasi praananiki ee prapancham lo unde kalmasham teliyadhu. Nenu kopam ga untunnanu ani anukuntundhi.  “You are not loving me like before nanna “ ani cheppindhi monnoka roju. Ela cheppanu tanaki that “I love her so much that I want her to be safe and happy in this world”

When at 24

Daughter: 

Job vacchi independent ga undatam valla ardham avtundhi intlo nanna entha kastha pade vaallo. Em adigina eppudu kaadanakunda teesukocche vaallu. Eppudaina teesuku ralekapothe chaala pedda godava chesi mari teppinchukone daanni. Ippudu naa salary tho nenu  spend cheyyadam start chesaake ardham avtundhi, nanna endhuku appu cheyyalsi vacchindho. Nannaki ela aina support ga undaali.

Nanna:

Ammayi manchi udyogam lo undhi ani oka vandha  mandhi tho cheppi untaaru ipaatiki. Tana bangaru thalli manchi sthaayi lo undhani  garvamga undhi. Aarogyam baagotledu.  Eppudu em avtundho teliyadhu. Edaina ayyelopale oka ayya chethilo ammayini pettali. Em taggakunda ammayi pelli cheyyali.

When at 25:

Daughter:

Pelli ane oka pedda decision teesukovadaaniki sagam reason Nanna. Nanna chusina abbayi ante Naakosam vandha saarlu cross check chese untaaru. Nanna laaga nannu ardham chesuskone vaadu aithe chaalu.

Father:

Appaginthala samayam lo Ammayi  edusthu ‘Bye nanna’ ani chepthe, tanani School lo drop chese rojule gurtochayi. Kaani school lo vadili pedithe saayantraaniki malli intlo naa kalla mundhe kanipinchedhi. Kaani ippudu dooram perigidhi. Naa bangaru thalli ni kalla mundhu chudaalante edu samudraalu daati vellali.

Nanna eppudu kopamga untaaru, Nanna ki em cheppina ardham kaadhu, Nanna eppudu work lo busy, Nannaki maatho time spend cheyyadaaniki kuda kudaradhu, Nanna naaku kaavalsindhi teesuku raaledhu ani maatrame aalochinche naaku, Maa nanna perspective ardham chesukovadaaniki paathikellu pattindhi.  

Nanna ki naa gurinchi aalochinchadam maatrame telusu. Nanna ki naakosam kasthapadatam maatrame telusu. Nanna ki nannu preminchadam maatrame telusu. Nanna kopam venaka kaaranam naa gurinchi jaagrattha teesukovadam ani  ardham chesukovadaaniki paatikellu pattindhi.

Sorry Nanna, ninnu ardham chesukovadaaniki naaku inni samvatsaraalu pattindhi. Kaani inni samvatsarallo naa meeda neeku unna prema maatram taggaledhu.

I love you nanna.

Itlu

Nee Bangaru Thalli

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