9 Differences That Explain How Marriages Used Happen Then & Now

 

Monna bore anipinchi….old family albums anni choosthunte..ma amma-nanna la pelli album kanapadindhi anamata. Ah album choosthunnapudu appatlo jarige pellilaki …ippudu jaruguthunna pellilaki chala theda unnatlu anipinchindhi …so , naku ala kanipinchina konni differences entante

 

1. Of course, Decoration:

 

Then:

Mostly gudilo ledha abbayi/ammayi intlo chestharu. And decorate cheyadam ante muddhabanti poolatho/maamidaakulatho thoranalu kadatharu .

Now:

We have marriage decorating people separately to decorate the manadapas and also ippudu pellilu marriage function halls lone kadha jaruguthunnayi. Theme based decorations kooda unnayi.

 

2. Entertainment:

Then:

Appatlo e paata kacheri , gaana bhajaana ilantivi undevi kaadhu .so , pelliki vachina varu okaritho okaru maata kaluputhu , family vishayalu share chesukuntu ala time pass chesevallu.

 

Now:

Ippudu chevulu pagilipoyela unna speakers petti , pakkana unnavadu yem matladuthunnado kooda artham kaakunda chese paata kacheri lu , dance show lu ..noru kattesukoni undela chesayi.

 

3.Food scenes:

Then:

Banthi bojanam …vinnara asalu ?
Andharu okesari kurchovadam.. vaadana chesevallu vachi vaddinchi velladam …inka kavali ante vachi mari kosari kosari vaddinchadam …andharu kalisi kurchoni okesari bhonchesevaaru.

Now:

Mostly buffet systems eh anamata ippudu antha . Yevariki yeppudu aakali aitea appudu velli tineyadame .

 

4. Food items:

Then:

Laddu , upma , uggani , inka lunch ki aitea lemon rice, sambar , paayasam .ila undevi chinna menu but full celebration feel vachela

Now:

Different cuisines, different dishes . Yenni items pedithe antha prestige/proud feels anamata.Anni tinalemu ..and ofcourse waste ayipothayi

 

5. Photos:

Then:

Still photographer undevaaru. Athane anni photo lu teesevaadu .and oka videographer for the video.

Now:

Pre wedding, post wedding , ila oka mini movie la chesthunnam. But its good to make memories kadha . And so we can cherish them for the rest of the life.

 

6. Chadhivimpulu / gifts:

Then:

Appatlo emo mari …abbayi tarapu nunchi ..ammayi tarupu nunchi …rendu counter lu open chesi chadivimpulu raayinchevaaru anamata . Inka gifts kindha steel bindhe lu , steel bowls ..ilativi ivvadam gamaninche untam.

Now:

Gifts are not accepted / meeru raavadame maaku mukhyam . Chadivimpulu sweekarinchabadavu…ilanti lines chadive untam kadha ?

 

7. Those minute detailing:

Then:

Those small thermocoal balls, shimmers , shinning things used for deocrations . Steel painted chairs and tables used for seating and dining , atta jadalu , poola pandiri

 

Now:

 

Different states nunchi tepinchina flowers, disco lights,konni sarlu plastic flowers ,plastic kurchi lu ..inka buffet ki tables avasaram ledhu

 

8. Those return gifts:

Then:
Pelliki vellina vallaki aaku vakka kalipi oka steel plate/ box and daani meedha ichina valla peru kooda chekkinchi mari ichevalu .

Now:

Plastic box lu , ofcourse steel box lu kooda , lekunte kumkum barine lu .

 

9. Traditions:

Then:

5 rojula pelli kakapoyina , kaneesam moodu rojulaina ayyedhi pelli tathangam avvadaniki ..nalugu pettadam , mettelu pettadam ilantivanni follow avvadam tho

Now:

Ippudu pelli ante oka roju lo ayipoye situations kooda unnayi . Agree ?

Ofcourse ,”Then” ani cheppinvaatillo , “Now” prajalu kooda ippatiki vaaduthu undachu .but yeah times has been changed and so the things . Did you feel the difference like how I felt ? If yes , please do comment and let us know too.

 

P.S:

Ivanni chadivina tarvutha “now” srinivasa kalyanam movie gurthochi undi unte ..mereko maaf kijiye ji .

 

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