Title chusi, chaala curiosity tho, ‘Ye, nene nene, na gurinche..’ ani open chesara. Mee intlo kuda, meeru chese work/job nachadhaa.. aithe welcome to the club. Mana life lo mana parents tho situations, conversations ela untayo chudham.
Manaki ‘ilanti‘ job ochindi ani intlo cheppagane vaalla first instinct is worrying about us. But ah concern kaastha kopam la maari, pedha pedha warnings istharu.
2. Mana Paruvu Prathishtalu em Aipovali..
YAASS, ee line aithe meeru pakka ga vine untaru. Adhento kaani, vaallaki artham kani job description edhi cheppina, prestige ga theeskoni, paapam paruvu antha poinattu feel avtharu.
Personally, When I joined ChaiBisket, While my parents were expecting me to join that MNC, in which I got selected during campus placement. They were like, ‘Entra ee ChaiBisket, Idly Sambar.. Saraina job chese udhesam undha ledha..!?‘
3. Govt job try chey raawww..
Every Telugu dad ever. ‘Engineering aipoyindi, Job raaledha.. em cheyali..‘
Telugu Dads: ‘Aithe ventane bank jobs coaching theeskoni, PO post kottali.‘
Asal adhi entha kasthamo.. Daaniki unna competition entha.. Asal most importantly, adhi ante manaki interest undha.. ane vishayalu asal manalni adagaru. I know they only wish good for us, But I wish they talk to us & understand what we really want to do with our lives.
4. Uchita Salahaalu ft. Chuttaallu
Evadi story lo aina asalaina villains veelle andi baabu. Manam life lo ela aithe peer pressure ani, FOMO ani raka rakala pressures face chestamo, Mana parents ki kuda oka pressure untadi, that is ‘Chuttaalla Pressure‘.
‘Evandi mee abbayi em chestunnadu ..? Nelaki entha sampadistadu.. ? Ayyo, anthena .. ? Twaraga job maaramani cheppandi.. Poni nannu matladamantaara..‘
Igo.. ilanti lines cheppi, mana parents burra thintaru, Mana parents emo ah kopam antha ekkada chupinchalo arthamkaka, mana meedha chupistaru.
5. Konni Months NO Maatalu:
‘Memu vadhu ani cheppaka kuda, neeku nachindi chestav kadha ra‘.. ane kopam lo, manatho matladatam manestaru. Abbaila case lo aithe, Especially fathers, man. Gattiga hurt avtharu.
6. Evaro okaru thaggali:
Yes, Ee stage ki ochesariki mana intlo 2 teams divide aipothai. ‘Me & sibling’ vs my parents. Evaro okaru thaggali.. Somebody has to compromise.. either manam or parents.
2 cases ikkada:
7. Case-1 : Parents compromise
Luckily, vaalle compromise aithe OK, super. They’ll slowly realise that we’re happy in our life, with our job. And they’ll respect our choice.
8. Case 2: Manam compromise aithe
Ala kadhu ani.. porapatu ga manam compromise ayyamaa..Life long oka chinna permanent regret undipodhi. ‘Asal nachina job chesevadu, quit enduku avtaadra..‘ antaraa..Because, I’ve seen people quitting the jobs the love, because of their parents and pressure.
9. We become independent:
Kani, finally edhi em aina sare.. We become independent of anybody. We stand on our own. Life teaches us so many things. We have to prove ourself, we can’t leave our parents behind, neither can we leave our work behind. So the only way left is to be successful, no matter how much time it takes.
My personal experience:
Naa personal experience nunchi aithe, Ee entire ‘problem’ ki okkate solution. TALK TO YOUR PARENTS. Half of the problems in the world will be solved, If you just sit and talk, anipistadhi naaku. Mundulo ma dad ni evaranna, ‘Mee abbayi ekkada pani chestunnadu‘ ante, cheppataniki ibbandi pade vaaru, Ippudu chaala swag tho ‘He’s doing what he loves‘ ani cheptunnaru. Our parents are never our enemies, they never should be.
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