Understanding చుట్టాలు 101: How Hard It Is To Be A Relative. A Note From Their Perspective

 

Sarigga manaki inter aipoyi, manchi colleges lo ey seatu raaka, vachina college lo em department theeskovalo thelika, pichi pichi ga confuse avthunna time lo, mana parents ki sudden ga oka aapadbaandhavudu gurtosthadu, athane RELATIVE.

 

1. Asalu evarayya ee relatives?

Ee relative, Oka Anna, mavayya, pedananna, chinnanna ila evaraina ayyundochu. Kani vallalo unde main quality, vallu maanchiga settle ayyi undadam. Adhega mana parents ki kuda kavalsindi. ‘Eeyana laga manodu kuda settle aipothe chaalu‘. Idhe dialogue run avuddi manolla mind lo. Andhukey, em course lo join avvali, em certifications cheyyali, job osthe andhulo future ela untundi, job rakapothe em cheyyali, ameerpet povala, ameerpet pothe akkada em institute lo join avvali, ekkada kurchovali, ekkada ongovali etc etc ila em doubt vachina thapaak mani phone ellipoddi manodiki… Asalu okasari oorike, the other side of the coin, mana relative gadi paristithi ela untundo oka look eddham…

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2. ‘Aa vallaki idea lekapoina, vallaki ishtam vachindi cheptharu. Memu erri pappa lu avutham’

Neeku em course/college join avvalo theliyake kadha bangaram, aa manishi ki phone chesindi. Appudu pokiri lo brahmi Ali ni annattu ‘ehh elle avathalaki po‘ analedu ga mammalni. Edho telisindhi/tochindhi chepthadu. Aayana time bavundi, manaki aa college/course set aithe all fine. Porapatuna manam assam vellamo, anthe… Khatam! Banda boothulu vachesthay, without any hesitation.

Aayana cheppindhi vini, taravatha nee research nuvvu cheskuni kuda join avvochu… Adhoka option undhi, kani manam cheyyam aa pani… Abbeyyy…

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3. ‘Abba, help kosam phone chesthe masth style dobbutharu ra babu veellu…’

Ee relatives meedha mana parents ki oka meter, manaki oka meter untundi. This is not something new at all. Manaki vallatho matladali anna, vipareethamaina mohamatam untundi. Asalu inkokarni endhuku help adagadam ane mood lo manam untam. Alanti time lo thappaka phone chesi, aayana edho panilo undi ‘nenu busy ga unnanu, taravatha chesthanu‘ annado… Anthe, done! Impression motham poddi manaki. Inka sachina phone cheyyali anipinchadhu.

Manam eppudu phone chesthama ani wait chesthu khali ga undadu ga aayna, idhe maata manam kuda chala sarlu cheppe untam vere vallatho. Andhukey, okkasari atu side undi allochisthe motham clarity vachestundi.

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4. ‘Mana paruvu theeyadanike puttaru emo veellu’

Intha kashtapadi 4 years chadivi, kindha meedha padi subjects anni complete cheskuntam. Time bagunte place avtham. Lekapothe, malli phone veltundi veellaki. Mana parents ki thelika, simple ga adigestharu ‘ma vadiki emanna unte chudandi kastha‘ ani. Okkasari aa lineance manam ichamu ante, inka aayana mindset ni batti manalni okati nunchi 100 maatalu antadu. Inka paruvu sangathi kasepu pakkana petteyadame.

Andhukey for the sake of self respect, koncham research cheskuni. Mana parents ki ‘aa veedi daari edo veedu chuskuntunnadu‘ ane confidence isthe, ee badhalu emi undavu.

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5. ‘Aina chethilo unna pani kuda cheyyakapothe inkendhuku’

Ila anevallu untarandoii, nijam. Kakapothe ikkada matter entante, aayana kuda job chala kashtapade techukuni untadu. Free ga aithe ivvaru kadha. Aayana chethilo unna pani kadha ani, mana kosam cheyyalsina avasaram kuda ledhu. Kudirithe/Ishtam unte chesthadu. Lekapothe mana pani manam chuskodame. Ikkada job raledhu ane desperation thappa, aayanani endhuku eskuntunnamo manaki kuda clarity undadhu. Fact matladukunte, aa desperation manakanna mana parents ki ekkuva untundi, for various reasons. Andhukey ee racha antha.

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6. ‘Mee salahalu maakoddu, ma saavu edo mem sastham’

Idhe realization inkoncham mundu vachunte, manaki life lo em cheyyalo oka clarity undedhi emo. Manaki ippudu salahalu ichevadu okadu unnadu. In a way, we are privileged ane cheppali. Mana mundhu generation aina ee parents, relatives ki life lo idhi chey ani cheppadaniki evvaru undevaru kadhu. Taking an advice is always good. Free ey ga, ichevadiki kuda etuvanti problem undadhu. Seeking a favor is not good always. In the process, Chala maatalu kuda padalsi vasthuntundi.

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Finally, mana mind lo sink in aippoinattu, relatives are not always these big potta uncles who make us feel ashamed in front of our parents. Valla side nunchi alochisthe, they just want to help us as a gratitude to our parents. Idantha manaki nachakapothe, parents ki khali ga kanapadakunda, mana pani manam cheskunte, parents happies manam happies. Anthe!

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PS: The main reason for this write up is we always ignore what’s there on the other side of the coin. Ee topic manaki koncham relatable ani theeskunna kani, there are so many perspectives which we ignore in the day to day life. Okasari aalochinchandi, meeke idea vacchestundi.

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